We often begin a mind numbing game of translating someone’s every word and movement when we first meet them. We do it all in the hopes of figuring out whether or not they like us.
Why do we women do this to ourselves? I can’t for the life of me figure that out! Mind you, I’m not innocent either. After all, you don’t become a relationship writer without a whole lot of relationship self analysis. After all of which I have concluded that straining ourselves to figure out a man’s emotions is just too much work. When really, it’s not that complicated.
Save for the man from whom you only receive mixed signals (the fool!), follow your instincts to decide if he’s into you or not. You can go back and forth on this for hours, but when all is said and done, it’s your instincts that will likely lead you in the right direction.
That being said there are still those of you who like nothing better than examining his every word. You actually like playing the “he loves me, he loves me not” game. To ensure you’re on the winning side, here’s a cheat sheet. If you’re still not sure, just ask him outright.
His friends know about you
When he introduces you to his friends for the very first time, and they already know about you, it’s a good sign. Men can’t be bothered discussing women with their buddies unless they’re very interested.
He calls you just to talk
I would say something about calling the day or two after you first go out but sadly, even the most intrigued and smitten of men can still fall prey to that old notion of having to wait several days to call a woman.
You know just as well as I do that if he doesn’t call the next day, it does not mean that he is not interested in you. But, if his next call comes at 11:30 on Friday night, this guy is more ass than class. If that’s what you want, then go for it. But a booty call isn’t likely someone who will be interested in meeting your parents. Those calls aside, if he calls within a week of your date, he’s interested.
He’s really listening
When men are interested in someone, they really do want to be just a little bit romantic. And they know that the best way to accomplish that is by knowing things about her. All of which means he’s really listening to you when you talk about your likes and dislikes. After all, he needs the facts before he can plan his romantic assault.
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