These Personality Traits Will Destroy Your Success With Women
Ever wonder how some guys have this almost magic ability to attract women like a magnet? Perhaps they’re handsome or it’s their body size and build.
Physical attractiveness helps but it’s not the only factor or even the most important factor. The greatest single ingredient to success with women is how you think and behave.
Your two biggest obstacles are:
1.) A passive approach to your problem – If you’ve always had a nonexistent love life you can’t count on fate to help you out. If you think that there is a perfect mate out there and that fate will deliver her to you if you wait long enough, you’ll be waiting for the rest of your life.
Nothing will change if you do nothing about your problem. If your love life has always been dead, you need to do something about it. You will need to expend a lot of energy to make it happen.
This passiveness could be a part of your personality. Or you may have believe incorrectly that things will ultimately work out for the best in the end. But when you make a habit of actively solving your problems, your life will improve greatly.
2.) Lack of confidence – A lack of confidence works against you in 2 ways. First, it will be too difficult to approach women. If you manage that, you may become paralyzed. You won’t recover very well from the many rejections that are a part of dating.
Second, women can’t resist confident and self assured men. If you don’t have it, you’re missing a needed element to becoming attractive to women. Without confidence, there’s only women who might find your shyness attractive.
Sometimes this can happen if you possess an exceptional talent, quality, or strength. But the odds of this happening are very much against you.
Confidence can be learned. It will require that you get in there and gain experience. When starting out, don’t think of winning over a woman as a do or die thing. You’re better off treating it as a kind of exercise where you learn from your mistakes and get better with each try.
Overcoming the limitations of passivity and lack of confidence may be all that you need. But you’ll never know until you’ve tried.
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