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The Steps To Making A Female Love You

September 8, 2011 by Peter Swanzki  
Posted in: dating

OK guys you are here and want the magic formula to make a chick fall head over heels in love with you right? Whilst it can seem difficult here are some tips that can help you in your quest.

The process for How to make a girl fall in love with you

One of the common mistakes that guys make is that they end up being weak and letting girls walk all over them. Sure you want to be respectful but you don’t need to be a wussy, contrary to popular belief, pandering and sucking up to the apple of your eye and constantly telling them how lovely they are, buying them flowers and gifts actually makes you look like a WEAK pussy. It’s repelling to girls. It’s instinctively built into a woman’s subconscious that they are looking for a man that could potentially be a father to their child.

The next tip is always to listen well when a girl is talking to you, they love to talk, and often will talk endlessly about themselves, this is cool and don’t interrupt them, let them talk to their hearts content and they will naturally begin to like you. To be a good candidate for romance you will need to be able to listen and say the right things. So when she’s talking give her your full attention, don’t be eying up other birds, looking at your phone, or mindlessly spacing out.

Getting a girl to like you can easily be done by using some NLP techniques in rapport building. We can do a lot by remembering that all humans are more likely to feel an affiliation with other humans that are similar to them, it’s very much an unconscious thing that takes place. One of the things you can do to build rapport subtlety is to use similar body language gestures that she uses. Perhaps as she is talking she has her hands or legs in a certain position, you can mimic this (but being subtle about it). You can also pace her speech, so if she is talking really slow and soft you can do the same. You get the idea right, you are kind of copying what she does but in a way that she won’t consciously notice (takes practice).

Don’t stay in the ‘friends’ category too long. This is easy to do and will kill your chances maybe permanently, once she sees you as a friend for more than a certain period of time, she may never see you in a ‘romantic’ capacity again. Use body language, words and actions to make her realise that you actually ‘fancy’ her and not just like her as a friend.

However you don’t need you use this as an excuse to get her under the duvet at the earliest opportunity, that will come later, when she INVITES you.

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