So here’s the thing, most guys today seem to be unable to approach women. Now, there are a ton of complex reasons for this phenomenon (which I won’t go into), but most guys want answer. Most guys are left scratching their heads searching for “how to approach” guides…

You should know a couple of things about me. I deal with this aspect a lot. I give dating advice myself, and that’s why I will provide you with some useful tips. These tips work. They work because they are simple. In fact, they are so simple that you might think that it is too good to be true. Most of my clients who tried it, said that it worked very well. Don’t forget of course, it’s you who must follow the advice.

So how to approach women? Its simple, the very first thing you gotta do is change your mindset. If you’re not good at approaching women (or can’t even do it), there’s just one main reason. Your focus and mindset is all wrong. You see her as a bomb to dismantle. You see her as a puzzle to solve or a task to do. This kind of focus would make approaching hard for everyone, even me!

You have to switch your mindset from “I want to seduce and get women” to “I just want to approach her to talk with someone and meet someone new”. This may be something you have never done before. It’s not something you will see advertised on the papers. It’s very counter intuitive. But, it works.

When you get to the point where approaching women is no more an issue for you, then you can start with tweaking your approach. You can then start focusing on the details more. You will learn some signs women give men. So, you first use eye contact to see if she is responding. If you look at her, and she doesn’t look back at all, then there is a big chance that she is not interested. If she looks at you for more than a second, she is interested and you can go ahead and approach her and MAKE FRIENDS WITH HER.

Just because girls start looking at you, don’t think that you can just do things as you’ve done them before and get better results. You still maintain that mindset that I mentioned before. Don’t be orientated on seducing her or getting it on with her. Just focus on making a new friend, a new acquaintance.

But then again, if you’re confused on what to do about How To Approach… You can always fill out the Dating Quiz and find out!