I’m writing this article to try and clear the air on the term “the gold digger”, a label applied to women who specifically and exclusively date wealthy men.
Some people love the luxuries that being rich brings. Further, they strive with the pressures that also come with these luxuries. Occasionally these people are women who, rather than earn the riches themselves, hope to marry into riches. As such, they pursue and date wealthy men exclusively.
People are different throughout the world. Every difference comes with its own pleasures and comes with its own pressures. Being rich is only one of those differences and its not for everyone. If you don’t think there are pressures for the rich, just look at the gossip section of any magazine. Not everyone can handle the pressures associated with abundance. That is why for so many people, winning the lottery is the worst thing that ever happened to them. It destroys their life.
Every person is different. I am different to you, you are different to everyone else. We all have different ideas, opinions and priorities. We all excel in different situations, we all crumble in different situations. Living a life of wealth and abundance does not work for everyone. The pressures associated with generating and maintaining such wealth do not work for everyone. For me for example, a life committed to love and family would be way more fulfilling than a life committed to career or business. Maintaining such wealth would not work for me. But that’s just me. Others do not need to wake up and walk their children to school. They wake up and need to get to work. Its what drives them. It’s who they are.
So why is it then, when someone understands themself, knows that this type of lifestyle is the one they need to be the best person they can be and goes out to find a partner who has a similar view on life, they are labelled a “gold digger”. Its just silly. Once again, it seems people label other people simply because of their own intolerance.
So if you know what you need in life, just go for it. There will be detractors no matter what you do. If you need a wealthy man to be the person you want to be, good luck to you. There certainly are enough websites out there to cater to your needs.
And forget about the detractors. Remember, their opinions usually tell you more about them than the people they are opining about.
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