If you are feeling confused and heart broken, I have some message for you.

Did you know that most relationships can be salvaged? You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason like infidelity, plain old lost passion, loss of interest, a stolen heart and worse still like men serving prison sentences have salvaged their relationships. Yes, even ex-cons have got back together with girlfriends and wives after being away for years!

You still have hope.

You are probably shaking your head in disbelief. This is understandable. I have a question for you.

Do you personally seen any couples that have patched up? Have you come across a guy that has taken a girl back or vice versa?

I bet you do and here’s the strange thing. Do you remember why they broke up in the first place? I bet you know at least one guy or gal that took their lover back after an affair or unfaithfulness.

Think about it for a sec.

Sure! And I bet you know of or have heard of at least one girl that has taken a guy back that really should not have. I am talking about girls or guys that are in verbally or physically abusive relationships.

Do note this is something that is complicated and I am not suggesting in any way to ask you to take your ex back if he or she is abusive. The point I want to make is there is no broken relationship that is unsalvageable. Regardless of the situation, there are couples who managed to reunite.

Seriously, doesn’t that make sense? If most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together even under even some horrible circumstances, then shouldn’t there be some hidden recipe, or secret even, to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love.

Now I am not saying they were holding some “secret love spell” guide and doing black magic. Not at all but at the same time somehow, by mostly accident they said and did the right things at the correct time and won back the heart of their lover or at least created the chance where their ex gave them another opportunity.

Let me to repeat. Very likely, they did those things by accident!

Imagine if what they did and what they said could be pinpoint down to a exact formula, and then you could just take and use it to remove old hurts, reignite old passion again, and go back to a time when your relationship was new, fresh and exciting.

Yes. There is such formula to getting back your ex. There exists a “recipe for love” as well as a recipe for getting back and keeping some ones interest, desire, passion, heart and love.

What they did by “accident” can be used over and over intentionally! If I were you I would be quite skeptical now. That’s absolutely fine.

Do you have these symptoms?

-leaving the radio off because every song makes you want to cry -no appetite -binge eating for comfort -calling your ex many times a day -text messaging and emailing constantly (text message terrorism) -constantly checking your voice mail and email to see if your ex called -staying at home because you are worried to miss a call -thinking constantly about why they really abandon you -feeling massively depressed -feeling urges to spy on them -endlessly rehearsing what you should have said -endlessly rehearsing what you will do if you bump into them

And when you do reach them, it usually turns ugly because you do not have a clear plan of what you are supposed to do. Defensiveness, panic and arguments will happen and then things get really out of hand.

Do you make these mistakes with your ex?

-we try very hard to tell them we are the love of their life -we will apologize profusely for everything -commit to turn over a new leaf -try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our mistake -even beg with them to take us back

And of course with every word we say, regardless of our true intention, the more defensive, angry and distant they become.

Please know that this is not your fault! You weren’t taught this in school. You probably weren’t taught this by your parents and there is no “how to get your ex back” night school. And it is really a pity too because what could have a higher priority than love?

So what you should do? There are many good resources online to show you the exact formula to win back your ex love heart.

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