For most of us, getting the conversation started with a complete stranger is a daunting thought. Overcoming this fear has the potential for you to create new worlds and embark on new life ventures when ever you please.

We have not suddenly come up with a piece of magic or potion that will suddenly turn you into a Casanova giving you the ‘gift of the gab’ No – but we are here to tell you it’s not about coming up with crafty one liners that will send any man or woman weak at the knees.

We’ve all heard of the smooth talkers who can talk their way into just about anything. But as far as women go, the ladies are clued up to sleazy men these days, and we believe that women love nice guys much more than bad boys.

Let’s say your out shopping or at the gym and you have this sudden urge to meet someone you’ve just spotted – it’s important to strike while the iron is hot so you don’t miss this opportunity, but prepare some quick conversation regarding the surroundings before you say hi.

Follow up your introduction by making the person feel good about themselves and telling them how well their shoes match their top, or you love the color of her lipstick.

We’re sure we are not telling you any ground breaking news or uncovered ideas, but all of us as humans respond positively when someone brightens up our day, and it’s often the simple comments or gestures that can easily get the conversation going.

The way in which a person is approached makes all the difference. Just as importantly, the type environment has a huge impact. People are usually untrusting in today’s day and age, so it’s imperative to make your introduction in a non intimidating way.

The time and place to make your advances needs to be done when the intended person is in a safe and secure environment. Not only is this common sense, but a pleasant environment also makes for easy conversation.

When it comes to complimenting someone, there is no better way to gain someone’s affections than by admiring something they hold dear to their heart. Ask them about their body art, piercings or finger nail design.

Once you master this technique, life as you know it will change forever and doors will start to open for you like never before.

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