It’s happened to us all…
You find a woman physically attractive.
But there’s a problem…
She thinks you’re uglier than sin.
Can you change how she feels?
Many experts will tell you that you need to be realistic about the cards you’ve been dealt – if a woman doesn’t find you sexy, there’s nothing you can do about it.
Do not do this. You’re cutting yourself short.
Regardless of your physical appearance, you can use a few simple psychological tricks to generate attraction in her.
You’re about to learn one of them that comes from the pick up artist Swinggcat. He calls it a “Tension Loop.”
A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved tension inside a female, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for more of you.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in their fictitious dramas for months – sometimes years! The structure is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And, finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again, compelling women to tune in for next week’s show.
Within the context of dating and flirting, this tension becomes sexualized.
A powerful Tension Loop Swinggcat uses a lot is called “Push-Pull.”
Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally Push a woman away from you and then emotionally Pull her back in.
Each Push sparks emotional tension and each Pull releases it.
Let’s look at an example of Push-Pull.
Flatter a female with, “You have the most gorgeous smile I’ve seen tonight.”
She’ll flash an even bigger smile and say, “Thank you.”
Then say, “Actually you have the fourth best smile I’ve seen tonight. I’m gonna call you number four.”
She will demand, “I want to be # 1.”
Say to her, “Wow. You’re a fighter. I’m promoting you to number three.”
She may carp, “I want to be number one.”
Caution, “If you keep complaining I’m demoting you back down to number four.
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