Men can be so much trouble for a woman. Of course, much of this frustration comes from the fact that us men and women just don’t have a very good understanding of each other. This conflict becomes most apparent after a break up, where a woman is often left feeling very hurt and confused. If you’re sick of being lonely and feel like you want your boyfriend, listen up because I’m going to give you some advice.

First of all, you want to make sure that your ex boyfriend is actually worth your effort. Take a few minutes, and really think about that if you have to. If you imagine your future without your ex boyfriend, does it seem better, or worse?

If he’s truly one of the good ones and you want nothing more than to just be happy with him, then perhaps you had something real and somewhere along the line it got murky and now you’re broken up. Now, I want you to think about something.

Why did your boyfriend get together with you in the first place? It was because he felt strong emotions around you and you felt strong emotions around him! If you’re anything like most couples, you found that you just couldn’t spend much time apart without at least thinking of each other. This is often referred to as “chemistry”, a “spark”, a “flame”, or indeed, “love.”

Somewhere along the line, that fire inside him must have started to dwindle away. It’s probably not your fault. Men tend to have short attention spans, so if you haven’t already learned to capture a man’s heart for the long term, then it’s very easy to find yourself in this situation.

Instead of focusing on the reasons that your boyfriend left you, instead focus on changing the way he feels to be more in line with how he felt in the beginning. That truly is the key to making your relationship repair itself, because when it comes to relationships, emotions are everything.

If you’re ready to become the sort of woman that can make a man commit for the long term, check this out: Dating Advice for Women

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