Little Things Men Do That Seriously Up Their Attraction
The Good Wink
I used to have such mixed feelings about the wink. I thought it was cheesy, way too played out and only used by guys who thought they were the most suave and dashing thing on the block. But that’s because I’d never seen it done right. I swear.
When a man flashed me a perfectly effortless wink, coupled with a little half smile, it really packed a wallop! The attraction was unmistakable. It’s unfortunate that not a lot of men can pull this off without looking lame, but when it works, it works well!
Get Rid Of The Dirt
We’re not asking that men be perfectly put together every second of every day. Yes, knowing how to clean yourself up and be presentable at a work or family function is definitely required training before we will date you. But we also love it when you’re all rugged and sweaty and manly! It all depends on the occasion.
And contrary to what you may believe, you don’t have to look like a Greek God either. We don’t want you to hold us to model standards, so we won’t do that to you. Fair is fair. However, personal hygiene counts for a lot. Major turnoffs include a forest of nose and/or ear hair, and dirty fingernails.
Smelling good
The general consensus is that most women hate a dude who drenches himself in cologne. That said, having a subtle but definite man smell is irresistible. Some women (right here!) think that an all-natural guy scent is a wonderful and alluring thing. Hello, pheromones! Other than that, picking a deodorant that smells great or using just one spritz of a sexy cologne is certainly attractive.
Laughter is the best medicine
Men who are so concerned with looking cool that they can’t appreciate a good belly laugh when the opportunity comes up are just, um, lame. Laughter is infectious and when a lady is hanging around a guy who lets the giggles rip at will, she is more likely to laugh along with him.
And you know what happens when we laugh don’t you? Our brains produce tons of feel good chemicals. A woman will make an instinctive connection between a guy who can laugh and feeling good. In other words a no fail magnet.
Keeping It Cool
While women like a guy who isn’t serious all of the time, we don’t want to see a guy who loses it on a regular basis either. We all have problems that we deal with, life’s stressors that have to be dealt with, but guys, freaking out over every little thing is a total turn off. It indicates a serious lack of maturity. We want to be your girlfriend, not your mother.
This article was developed by the staff of the Datepad.com company where you can find thousands more helpful .
categories: internet dating,finding a date,dating tips,free online dating,sex,personals,singles,people,relationships,lifestyle,dating