One of life’s most wonderful, and complex, mysteries is Love, with a capital L. Since the beginning of time, the sexes have argued. Men protest that they simply don’t understand the female sex. Women on the other hand claim that men are insensitive. It’s a no win battle. And there is one particular complaint that almost all women have in common.
Women have always been baffled by men’s apparent inability to follow through on a promise made to a woman. Case in point; Man tells you that he’s going to call you at 7 pm. Seven o’clock comes and goes without a phone call. Did he ever intend to call? Even worse; you and your sweetie make plans and when the time rolls around, he’s gone AWOL.
The mystery surrounding this apparent lack of sensitivity is really quite puzzling not to mention annoying. The more curious and inquisitive women will demand to know why. Others just stew in silence, but they stew nonetheless. All differences between the sexes aside, there is no excuse for this apparent lack of sensitivity.
I wonder if this lack of sensitivity stems from a rejection of having to let a woman know where they are. Perhaps it’s all a throwback to when they were young boys and had to let their mothers know their whereabouts. Well guess what guys? It’s not that we want to know where you are every minute of the day, but we worry when you don’t call as expected. It’s really that simple.
Guys who read this might say that women nag or bitch, but is that really true? In fact, the ones who see this as nagging or bitching must know that deep inside what is being said applies to them in some form or another. The offended person must know they are guilty of the accused crime.
We’ve all heard that the truth hurts, and emotionally it does hurt, just as it does when you promise a woman that you are going to do one thing, and you turn around and do another that totally excludes her. How can someone believe that feels good? The answer? It doesn’t! Then there is the question of respect. In fact, many of us have been stood up at least once in our lives and we know how painful it is.
Trust and honesty are what makes a good relationship. Whether that relationship is one of friendship or romance, hurting someone’s feelings on purpose just doesn’t cut it. Relationships have enough problems built in without adding to the mix.
So for all you fellows out there, here’s a bit of good advice. If you promise a phone call, then call. Same goes for emails, text messages or a visit. If for some reason you can’t make it, let your lady know. If nothing else it demonstrates that you respect her and that she’s important to you.
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