There is probably no adult man who would not like to discover his inner Casanova. As such, when you are out on a night with your buddies to have a couple of drinks, it is but natural to get into a situation when you will be tempted to use your skills in meeting a member of the opposite sex.

The first question that you need to ask is where you would like to go. Naturally, most casual encounters with the opposite sex would occur in bars and clubs. Both genders hang out here to specifically mingle and practice their dating skills. For men, it’s all a matter of discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you. After scoping out the place during a busy weekend – either alone or with a few of your buddies, the second skill that you need to work on is to look for cues on whether or not a woman’s interested.

Let’s say that you have already gone through the initial introductions. You are feeling like the ultimate Casanova as you nurse your bottle of beer while she is sipping her margarita. How can you tell if she is interested in dating you or not? The first thing that you need to work on is leaving a lasting impression.

Afterwards, that is the time that you can sharpen even more your dating skills by putting on the charm. You wouldn’t want a hot woman walking the other direction once she sees you approaching. This is precisely the reason why it pays to learn all about how you can ‘listen’ to a woman’s body language.

Unleashing Your Casanova Techniques on Understanding her Body Language

If you would like to bring out the Casanova in you and learn how to actually understand a woman’s language, there are non-verbal cues that you need to look for. More often than not, women use subtle cues to lure men into their ‘trap’ – which pretty much means that they are interested. To help you out, here is a quick list of some non-verbal cues that Casanovas like you need to watch out for:

Leaning over – “It’s okay for you to talk to me”. When a woman leans over you when she is trying to make a point or when listening to what you have to say – especially if it is not that crowded in the bar – it means that she is comfortable enough for you to prolong the conversation. This is the time that you can use your Casanova skills and charm the heck out of her.

She establishes eye contact. Another sign that you have managed to capture a woman’s attention is when she establishes eye contact and holds your gaze for more than five seconds. That is a sure sign that she would agree to dating you – and if you are lucky enough – she might even invite you to her place by the end of the night.

Combined body language and subtle hints – “You can invite me for a nightcap.” Some men are simply lucky in this department. If she flirts with you right back, initiates physical contact and reacts positively to your verbal and physical overtures, then that is a sign that she is thinking along the lines of tangling the sheets with you.

Naturally, when you recognize these signs, it is up to you to make the initial move. Women would not want to be labelled as promiscuous or too forward – so once you recognize the signs, do make the first move, you Casanova! The dating world may be a bit complex, but a woman’s body language isn’t. So learn to read the signs and you should be able to get her number, set a real date or even go home with her by the end of the night.

George Andrews is an expert writer who has created a few e-books and authored plenty of online and offline articles on dating and relationships. Know how to have more women surrender to your charms by subscribing to his blog and checking out his website.