How much would you like to bet that Brad and Angelina don’t suffer from this particular insecurity. They’re both extremely good looking people. Millions of readers around the world have cast their votes on gossip websites and in well known magazines making this a global good looking couple.

Both of these beautiful people wouldn’t be found on an internet dating site if they were single! They’d have potential dates lining up around the block; such is the life of a beautiful celebrity.

Good looking people get attention, there’s no getting away from that. And when two good looking people are dating, the attention drawn their way doubles. So what would happen if you were to date a drop dead gorgeous someone? Would your insecurities surface or would you cope just fine?

When I was younger, I did date a man who was very handsome. There were even times I thought to myself, what was he doing with me? I mean, I was cute, but only in a girl next door way. He, on the other hand was quite good looking; very good looking to be exact. When we were together women would swoon. Guys would even look as we walked by.

And that was the issue; they looked at him and not at me. I was to insecure to date someone so good looking and we didn’t date for long. Though I was sad when we stopped dating (he was a nice enough guy), I was happy that the relationship was over and I didn’t have to feel jealous every time we went out.

Now what he looked like should really not have mattered. He was simply a person looking for love and he actually liked me for who I was. Clearly, he found me attractive however, the problem was not him. It was me. I had fantasized about the guy with the movie star looks as a teen, but when it became a reality I had no idea what to do with him. It is as though, I could not relax and just enjoy the moment. He was fun to be with and loved to play practical jokes, but somehow the looks were an issue.

Of course physical appearance counts; it’s the first thing we notice when we meet someone But to take a relationship to the next level most of us rely on more than just looks; we put our faith in personality and things we may have in common.

I am happy to say that I have gotten another chance. The guy I am seeing now is even more handsome than the one before. This time, when we walk down the street holding hands and the girls swoon, I smile and think about how handsome he is inside and out. There is nothing wrong with dating someone extremely good-looking, but you just have to make sure you are secure.