So, you’ve been dumped and now you want to make your girlfriend jealous so she’ll go on bended knee to get you back. I don’t have an inkling of how it happened, but maybe she really let you have it and now you want your come-uppance. Perhaps you have a desire to make her realize she’s missing something special by not being with you. Whatever, but you need to bend the power of jealousy in a way that annoys her like a persistent itch.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #1 – Understanding Women and Jealousy
Relationships. Women view these as their vulnerabilities, and through them you can rouse jealousy to work on your behalf. Matter of fact: Women are afraid of losing your attraction to them even if they’ve dumped you. You’ve perhaps noted the vain bastard who is careless about women’s hearts, yet always has them panting. The brigand makes them swoon, but we decent types don’t even get a nod.
Ignore her. That’s your first move. You’re not out to look like a jerk, you’re out to look like the weather report is more important than she.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #2 – Make Her Feel Like She’s Missing Out
However badly you may want to do it, telling her that you loathe her or that you never loved her isn’t going to work. Why make her mad? That’s all words like that will do. And you’ll come off as a creep. Neither of those are your goal.
Go out of your way to avoid her. Make it obvious that you want nothing to do with her. Any reaching out by her should be gently snubbed. Make her try to get your attention. But don’t overdo it. Meanwhile, you need to start having an incredible time. Expand your circles of friendship. Make sure all your mutual friends know what fun you’re having.
Once your ex hears about your fun times like when she first met you, boredom, if nothing else, will start her to wondering what she may be missing. “I remember that this guy was lots of fun. Why did I let him go?” These thoughts could very well become a concern to her.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #3 – Turn Up the Heat
Great! You’ve got fun back in your life. You’re being somewhat aloof when she’s around. Here’s where you start playing on her jealousy. She probably wishes she were with you again. It’s time to kick the action up a bit.
The next push is to start being seen with other women. You don’t really want to start dating again. In fact, you shouldn’t if you have plans on getting your ex back. But a lunch or a coffee break with another girl every so often is acceptable.
If you’re lucky, your ex may see you in some of these situations. At any rate, word will get back to her and she’ll starting making wild guesses about what’s up. Your ex will start feeling some anxiety as she wonders if she’s losing you altogether and whether or not she should make a move to get you back.
You’ve done the jealousy thing well enough to make her wonder long and hard about you. She’s probably figuring out how to get you back. All of a sudden, you have the upper hand, you get to make the choice. She snubbed you. But now the ball is in your court. You can decide what to do about the relationship. Remember, it pays to be nice. No matter if you decide to take her back or not, don’t be a creep about it. Okay, maybe she dropped you down a notch or two, but it’s always best to return kindness for any wrong, for good guys anyway.
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